For the past week, I just couldn't shake off that shitty feeling about my helper. The feeling sucks as she is living under the same roof as me and I definitely needed that trust back. If not, it became meaningless having her in the house.
After speaking to my hubby, I think I can wait no more for him to come home to settle it.
My hubby actually suggested that I do a room spot check so that she won't be able to deny but for me, this is just way too hassle for I am already having such a handful with my son.
So I took the opportunity of pretending to look for my bag of nut and to tell her that I am no fool and once again make sure she understood my house rules.
Initially she denied that she took numerous of my personal stuff (out of my bedside table as well as in my room). She denied that she took my girl's hand phone as well as helping herself to a full bag of macadamia nuts that was brought by my hubby for me.
I told her I won't accuse her of doing something that I didn't see with my own eyes. I asked her whether she prefers me to put her on the spot when I caught her or rather give her a chance to put it back to where it belongs.
After all, all these months she is with us, we always treated her like one of our child. When we buy sweets for my kids, she will get her share. When we ate something, she will get her share too. We definitely don’t mind her eating but to dominate all is not a practise in my household. Even to my kids, I always teach them about sharing.
I definitely won't condone such behaviours of her helping herself to our stuff especially behind my back!
After putting her back in place, I felt so much better now and happier. Let’s pray that she won’t relapse into those bad behavioural and continue her next 7 months contract.
Now to distract my son from getting too much gadgets, I got him to bake cookies. This batch of cookie dough was given to me by LT. This is what he had done up after much complaining about scooping the cookie dough onto the trays.
As for our dinner, I opted for Passionate about Baking's Black gold pizza.
I modified the recipe to have white sauce instead of tomato based as I briefly saw it on AFC.
So we are happy birds having our non meat Friday dinner with this Black Pizza with white sauce.
A funny note, both my kids commented why the pizza was burnt when I presented it on the dinning table.
Overall, I love the crust and the white sauce is really something that I will try again.